The Lover's Dictionary

The Lover's Dictionary : a novel
By David Levithan
Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2012. 211 pages. Poetry

How does one talk about love? Do we even have the right words to describe something that can be both utterly mundane and completely transcendent, pulling us out of our everyday lives and making us feel a part of something greater than ourselves? Taking a unique approach to this problem, the nameless narrator of David Levithan's The Lover's Dictionary has constructed the story of his relationship as a dictionary. Through these short entries, he provides an intimate window into the great events and quotidian trifles of being within a couple, giving us an indelible and deeply moving portrait of love in our time.

The Lover's Dictionary is both a book of poetry and a single, cohesive narrative constructed through fleeting glimpses and gathered details expanded on from one poem to the next. While each "Dictionary" entry can very well stand on its own, the book is best appreciated as a single story, albeit one told out of order and in poetic language. Thrilling and heartbreaking, dreamy and despairing in equal measure, Levithan captures the highs and lows of every relationship in a way that somehow feels equal parts intimate, relatable, and unique. I particularly enjoyed how the only names in the book are those of "side characters", friends and family of the narrator and the lover. These two are never given a name, simply referred in the first person as "You" and "I". It feels as if the reader is in the unique position of approaching each poem as both narrator and lover. And in a way, as in all real relationships, we are.

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