By Nicola Dinan
The Dial Press, 2025. 305 pages. Fiction
This novel is an exploration of love, loss, trans panic, race, millennial angst, and the relationships--familial and romantic--that make us who we are. It is funny, sharp, and poignant. One of the best ways to build empathy is to read books about people who are different from us. (Check out this article from the American Psychological Association that support this claim!) Autostraddle Magazine calls this book, "One of the sharpest and most emotionally vulnerable novels on the complicated dynamic of dating cisgender straight men as a trans woman.” I'll never experience what it's like to be a trans woman, so reading a book like this is an excellent way for me to build understanding, empathy, and compassion.
Our main character Max, a 30-year-old trans woman, poet, and legal adviser at a tech company, is struggling with writer’s block following a recent breakup. After deciding to date again, she meets Vincent Chan, a cisgender corporate lawyer and son of Chinese immigrants. Despite their genuine connection, not just as Asians in the London business world but as kindred spirits, their relationship is tested by Vincent’s occasional thoughtless remarks about Max’s trans identity and her emerging health concerns resulting from her gender-affirming care. She must use love and forgiveness to determine whether it’s possible to move beyond her dissatisfaction and their shared mistakes.
The character development in this novel is compelling, and the thought-provoking plot kept me invested. Max is an incredibly complex character, and this book will leave you thinking about her and caring about her, long after you're done reading.
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By Emily St. James
Crooked Media Reads, 2025. 351 pages. Fiction
Erica Skyberg is thirty-five years old, recently divorced, and trans. Not that she's told anyone yet. Mitchell, South Dakota, isn't exactly bursting with other trans women. Instead, she keeps to herself, teaching by day and directing community theater by night. That is, until Abigail Hawkes enters her orbit. Abigail is seventeen, Mitchell High's resident political dissident and Only Trans Girl. It's a role she plays faultlessly, albeit a little reluctantly. She's also annoyed by the idea of spending her senior year secretly guiding her English teacher through her transition. But Abigail remembers the uncertainty--and loneliness--that comes with it. Besides, Erica isn't the only one struggling to shed the weight of others' expectations. As their unlikely friendship evolves under the increasing scrutiny of their community, both women, and those closest to them, will come to realize that sometimes there is nothing more radical than letting the world see who you really are.
A Gentleman's Gentleman
By T.J. Alexander
Vintage Books, 2025. 322 pages. Fiction
The notoriously eccentric Lord Christopher Eden is a "man of unusual make" and even more unusual habits: he wears pastels year round, prefers to live as far from the prying eyes and ears of the town as possible, and wholeheartedly prefers the comfortable company of his childhood cook and aged butler, Plinkton, to any swarm of servants that would normally befit a man of his station. His penchant for privacy makes for a pleasant, if occasionally lonely life. That life is threatened to be upended entirely when Christopher receives word from his lawyers that, according to his late father's will, he must find a wife in London by the end of the Season if he intends to maintain his status as the only living heir to the Eden's End estate. While most men his age and status would leap at the chance to marry, he cannot imagine a worse fate... Enter: the handsome-if stoic James Harding, the new valet Christopher very reluctantly hires after Cook and Plinkton remind him that if he's to stay in London, he must keep up appearances befitting that of a wealthy, eligible bachelor. After a rocky start to their relationship, the two strike up a fragile friendship amid the throes of the London Season; a friendship that threatens to shatter completely as Christopher's deadline to find a wife looms.
Bad Habit
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By Emily St. James
Crooked Media Reads, 2025. 351 pages. Fiction
Erica Skyberg is thirty-five years old, recently divorced, and trans. Not that she's told anyone yet. Mitchell, South Dakota, isn't exactly bursting with other trans women. Instead, she keeps to herself, teaching by day and directing community theater by night. That is, until Abigail Hawkes enters her orbit. Abigail is seventeen, Mitchell High's resident political dissident and Only Trans Girl. It's a role she plays faultlessly, albeit a little reluctantly. She's also annoyed by the idea of spending her senior year secretly guiding her English teacher through her transition. But Abigail remembers the uncertainty--and loneliness--that comes with it. Besides, Erica isn't the only one struggling to shed the weight of others' expectations. As their unlikely friendship evolves under the increasing scrutiny of their community, both women, and those closest to them, will come to realize that sometimes there is nothing more radical than letting the world see who you really are.
A Gentleman's Gentleman
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By T.J. Alexander
Vintage Books, 2025. 322 pages. Fiction
The notoriously eccentric Lord Christopher Eden is a "man of unusual make" and even more unusual habits: he wears pastels year round, prefers to live as far from the prying eyes and ears of the town as possible, and wholeheartedly prefers the comfortable company of his childhood cook and aged butler, Plinkton, to any swarm of servants that would normally befit a man of his station. His penchant for privacy makes for a pleasant, if occasionally lonely life. That life is threatened to be upended entirely when Christopher receives word from his lawyers that, according to his late father's will, he must find a wife in London by the end of the Season if he intends to maintain his status as the only living heir to the Eden's End estate. While most men his age and status would leap at the chance to marry, he cannot imagine a worse fate... Enter: the handsome-if stoic James Harding, the new valet Christopher very reluctantly hires after Cook and Plinkton remind him that if he's to stay in London, he must keep up appearances befitting that of a wealthy, eligible bachelor. After a rocky start to their relationship, the two strike up a fragile friendship amid the throes of the London Season; a friendship that threatens to shatter completely as Christopher's deadline to find a wife looms.
Bad Habit
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By Alana Portero
HarperVia, 2024. 224 pages. Fiction
I read this book in 2024 and blogged about it here. It's a staggering coming-of-age novel deeply rooted in the struggles of a trans woman growing up in Madrid. Set against the very real heroin epidemic that ravaged Madrid in the 1980s and the city’s vibrant party scene that dominated its nightlife in the 1990s, the novel follows an unnamed protagonist as she grows up in a blue-collar suburb that has no place for her. Forging ahead, she discovers community and kinship in downtown Madrid, amid a lively party scene animated by junkies, pop divas, and fallen angels. But with each step she takes forward, she finds herself confronted by a violence she does not yet know how to counter; in this exciting and often terrifying world, each choice can truly be a matter of life and death.
The In-Between Bookstore
By Edward Underhill
Avon Books, 2025. 253 pages. Fiction
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HarperVia, 2024. 224 pages. Fiction
I read this book in 2024 and blogged about it here. It's a staggering coming-of-age novel deeply rooted in the struggles of a trans woman growing up in Madrid. Set against the very real heroin epidemic that ravaged Madrid in the 1980s and the city’s vibrant party scene that dominated its nightlife in the 1990s, the novel follows an unnamed protagonist as she grows up in a blue-collar suburb that has no place for her. Forging ahead, she discovers community and kinship in downtown Madrid, amid a lively party scene animated by junkies, pop divas, and fallen angels. But with each step she takes forward, she finds herself confronted by a violence she does not yet know how to counter; in this exciting and often terrifying world, each choice can truly be a matter of life and death.
The In-Between Bookstore
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By Edward Underhill
Avon Books, 2025. 253 pages. Fiction
When thirty-year-old trans man Darby finds himself unemployed and in need of a fresh start, he moves back to the small Illinois town he left behind. But Oak Falls has changed almost as much as he has since he left. One thing is familiar: In-Between Books, Darby's refuge growing up and high school job. When he walks into the bookstore now, Darby feels an eerie sense of déjà vu--everything is exactly the same. He's transported back to 2009, and face-to-face with his teenage self, who just might give Darby the opportunity to change his own present for the better--if he can figure out how before his connection to the past vanishes forever. The In-Between Bookstore is a bingeable time travel novel of love, self-discovery, and the choices that come with both. It's for anyone who has ever wondered what their life might be like if they had the chance to go back and take a bigger, braver risk.
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